Hope you had a good Valentine’s Day. I have come to realise that for a
relationship to thrive, it’s good if you love each other deeply but
during the really bad days, the guy not the chic has to be madly,
stupidly in love with his woman. He has to see her as the centre before
cars and other simple obsessions.
She has to be the art, the poem, the symphony and the 16 part
accapella. He has to see her beyond her moody, irrational, illogical and
inconsistent self. More often than not, he will see her as his baby,
worth of those names people don’t call each other in public. He has to
be so proud of her that he wants to show the world his gem.
He covers her back and let’s her be. He will bless her, teach her,
uplift her and look for opportunities to make her know she’s all the
women he has ever desired placed in one. He is not lazy when it comes to
her, he doesn’t have to have money, he is pure of heart, which she will
pick.
He is playful, around her but serious and focused about a tomorrow
where he will wake and think, gadamn this woman be hot. And the
woman…the wise one knows she means the world to the guy. She keeps the
relationship alive by respecting him, ‘I love yous’ do not matter to him
if its more said than done… she knows he is stupid, makes mohawks in
the bathroom…
She knows sex is not what keeps him interested in her. That she
acknowledges that it can get old and boring. She has his back at all
times. She keeps him on toes not based on what the world dictates but
based on facts and pure knowledge of her man.
She reads and keeps him intrigued intellectually, emotionally and
those other allys…she knows his love language and speaks it, not to kiss
ass, but because when he is happy he rebounds it on her. She knows that
when he is down, he will turn to her to be uplifted, she knows when to
say what and what to do.
She keeps herself amazing and easy to love. She is not boring and
knows her man is an individual who has beaten many odds to be with
her…she does not compare him to his or her dad, brother X and other
‘enviable’ men…They are not with her, he is.
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